Monday, October 30, 2017

THANK GOD FOR WHAT YOU HAVE UNTIL YOU CAN!

A rich man looked through his window and saw a poor man picking something from his dustbin ... He said, “Thank GOD I'm not poor.”

The poor man looked around and saw a naked man misbehaving on the street ... He said, “Thank GOD I'm not mad.”

The mad man looked ahead and saw an ambulance carrying a patient ... He said, “Thank GOD am not sick.”

Then a sick person in hospital saw a trolley taking a dead body to the mortuary ... He said, “Thank GOD I'm not dead.”

Only a dead person cannot thank GOD

Why don't you thank GOD today for all your blessings and for the gift of life ... for another beautiful day!

What is LIFE?
To understand life better, you have to go to 3 locations :

1. Hospital
2. Prison
3. Cemetery

At the Hospital, you will understand that nothing is more beautiful than HEALTH

 In the Prison, you'll see that FREEDOM is the most precious thing.

 At the Cemetery, you will realize that life is worth nothing. The ground that we walk today will be our roof tomorrow.


We all come with NOTHING and we will go with NOTHING ... Let us, therefore, remain humble and be thankful NS grateful to GOD at all times for everything. 

Monday, October 16, 2017

ROOT OUT WHILE YOUNG!


A teacher took his students for a picnic to a nearby botanical garden. As they were walking through, the teacher thought of a game and asked the smallest of the students, “Can you pull this tiny plant?” The boy easily pulled it out.  Then the teacher showed a plant which had deeper root and asked the same question. But however much the boy tried, he couldn’t. Then he summoned a bigger boy to pull that one out and he could do it with ease. The game continued with a deeper rooted plants and no one in the group could.  The teacher pulled that one and then showing the mother plant he said, “I could pull this one, but not even a strongest man can pull out this mother plant!” 
“So it is with bad habits,” said the teacher. “When they are young it is easy to pull them out but when they take hold they cannot be uprooted.”
The teacher who was a believer in God’s power further said, “Though the strongest man cannot pull out this mother plant, an elephant can. So there is hope for even a person who has deep rooted sinful nature. Seek His/Her help if you cannot do it by yourself.”
Don’t wait for bad habits to grow in you, drop them while you have control over it, else they will get control of you. If you are in a stage where you cannot do it by yourself, seek God’s assistance!

Monday, October 9, 2017


 THREE TYPES OF PEOPLE AROUND


Once a teacher showed three toys to a student and asked the student to find out the differences - all the three toys seemed to be identical in their shape, size, and material. After keen observation, the student observed holes in the toys: the first toy had holes in the ears, the second had holes in the ear and mouth and the third had only one hole in one ear.
The teacher asked the student to put a needle through the hole. The student put the needle in the ear hole of the first toy. The needle came out from the other ear. In the second toy, when the needle was put in the ear the needle came out of the mouth. And in the third toy, when the needle was put in, the needle did not come out.
Then the teacher told, “The First toy represents those people around you who gives an impression that they are listening to you and cares for you. But they just pretend to do so. After listening, as the needle comes out from the other ear, the things you said to them are gone. So be careful while you are speaking with this type of people around you. Be aware that they do not care for you.”
“The Second toy represents those people who listen to you giving an impression that they care for you. But as in the toy, the needle comes out through the mouth. These people will use your words and use them against you by telling it to others. They are gossipers! They are more dangerous than the first.”   
“In the Third toy, the needle does not come out from it. These kinds of people will keep the trust you have in them. They are the ones who you can count on.”
Be careful not to be like the first two sets of people and also not to associate with these kinds.

Tuesday, September 12, 2017

THINK WISELY AS YOU SPEND

The wisdom of Birbal was unparalleled during the reign of Emperor Akbar. But Akbar’s brother in law was extremely jealous of him. He asked the Emperor to dispense with Birbal’s services and appoint him in his place. He gave ample assurance that he would prove to be more efficient and capable than Birbal. Before Akbar could take a decision on this matter, this news reached Birbal.

Birbal resigned and left. Akbar’s brother in law was made the minister in place of Birbal. Akbar decided to test the new minister. He gave three hundred gold coins to him and said, “Spend these gold coins such that, I get a hundred gold coins here in this life; a hundred gold coins in the other world and another hundred gold coins neither here nor there.”

The minister found the entire situation to be a maze of confusion and hopelessness. He spent sleepless nights worrying how he would get himself out of this mess. Thinking in circles was making him go crazy. Eventually, on the advice of his wife, he sought Birbal’s help. Birbal said, “Just give me the gold coins. I shall handle the rest.”

Birbal walked the streets of the city holding the bag of gold coins in his hand. He noticed a rich merchant celebrating his son’s wedding. Birbal gave a hundred gold coins to him and bowed courteously saying, “Emperor Akbar sends you his good wishes and blessings for the wedding of your son. Please accept the gift he has sent.” The merchant felt honored that the king had sent a special messenger with such a precious gift. He honored Birbal and gave him a large number of expensive gifts and a bag of gold coins as a return gift for the king.

Next, Birbal went to the area of the city where the poor people lived. There he bought food and clothing in exchange for a hundred gold coins and distributed them in the name of the Emperor.

When he came back to town he organized a concert of music and dance. He spent a hundred gold coins on it.

The next day Birbal entered Akbar’s darbar and announced that he had done all that the king had asked his brother-in-law to do. The Emperor wanted to know how he had done it. Birbal repeated the sequences of all the events and then said, “The money I gave to the merchant for the wedding of his son – you have got back while on this earth. The money I spent on buying food and clothing for the poor – you will get it in the other world. The money I spent on the musical concert – you will get neither here nor there.” Akbar’s brother in law understood his mistake and resigned. Birbal got his place back.

The money you spend on friends is returned or reciprocated in some form or the other. The money spent on charity gets converted into blessings from God which will be your eternal property. The money spent on pleasures is just frittered away. So when you spend your money, think wisely as you spend.


Wednesday, September 6, 2017

HONTESTY HAS A PRICE

DD Podhigai telecast an interview with Mr. P. M. Nair, (retired IAS officer, who was the Secretary to Dr. Abdul Kalam when he was the President). I summarize the points he spoke in a voice choked with emotion.  (Mr. Nair has authored a book titled "Kalam Effect")

1. Dr Kalam used to receive costly gifts whenever he went abroad as it is customary for many nations to give gifts to the visiting Heads of State. Refusing the gift would become an insult to the nation and an embarrassment for India.  So, he received them and on his return, Dr Kalam asked the gifts to be photographed and then catalogued and handed over to the archives. Afterwards, he never even looked at them. He did not take even a pencil from the gifts received when he left Rashtrapathi Bhavan.

2.  In 2002, the year Dr Kalam took over, the Ramadan month came in July-August. It was a regular practice for the President to host an iftar party.

Dr Kalam asked Mr Nair why he should host a party to people who are already well fed and asked him to find out how much would be the cost. Mr Nair told it would cost around Rs. 22 lakhs.

Dr Kalam asked him to donate that amount to a few selected orphanages in the form of food, dresses and blankets. The selection of orphanages was left to a team in Rashtrapathi Bhavan and Dr Kalam had no role in it.

After the selection was made, Dr Kalam asked Mr Nair to come inside his room and gave him a cheque for Rs 1 lakh. He said that he was giving some amount from his personal savings and this should not be informed to anyone.

 Mr Nair was so shocked that he said "Sir, I will go outside and tell everyone. People should know that here is a man who not only donated what he should have spent but he is giving his own money also”.

Dr Kalam though he was a devout Muslim did not have Iftar parties in the years in which he was the President.

3. Dr Kalam did not like "Yes Sir" type of people. Once when the Chief Justice of India had come and on some point Dr Kalam expressed his view and asked Mr Nair,  "Do you agree?" Mr Nair said "No Sir, I do not agree with you". The Chief Justice was shocked and could not believe his ears.

It was impossible for a civil servant to disagree with the President and that too so openly. Mr Nair told him that the President would question him afterwards why he disagreed and if the reason was logical 99% he would change his mind.

4. Dr Kalam invited 50 of his relatives to come to Delhi and they all stayed in Rashtrapathi Bhavan.  He organised a bus for them to go around the city which was paid for by him. No official car was used. All their stay and food was calculated as per the instructions of Dr Kalam and the bill came to Rs 2 lakhs which he paid.

In the history of this country no one has done it!

Now, wait for the climax, Dr Kalam's elder brother stayed with him in his room for the entire one week as Dr Kalam wanted his brother to stay with him.  When they left, Dr Kalam wanted to pay rent for that room also.

Imagine the President of a country paying rent for the room in which he is staying. This was any way not agreed to by the staff who thought the honesty was getting too much to handle!!

5.  When Kalam Sir was to leave Rashtrapathi Bhavan at the end of his tenure, every staff member went and met him and paid their respects.

Mr Nair went to him alone as his wife had fractured her leg and was confined to bed. Dr Kalam asked why his wife did not come. He replied that she was in bed due to an accident.

Next day, Mr. Nair saw lot of policemen around his house and asked what had happened. They said that the President of India was coming to visit him in his house. He came and met his wife and chatted for some time. Mr. Nair says that no president of any country would visit a civil servant's house and that too on such a simple pretext. I thought I should give the details as many of you may not have seen the telecast and so it may be useful.

The younger brother of AJP Abdul Kalam runs an umbrella repairing shop. When Mr. Nair met him during Kalam’s funeral,  he touched his feet, in token of respect for both Mr. Nair and brother.


Such information should be widely shared on social media as mainstream media will not show this because it doesn't carry the so-called GB TRP value.

Monday, August 28, 2017

WE ARE TOURISTS & GOD IS OUR TRAVEL AGENT

Today’s post is a sharing of a beautiful message I received recently.

 An old man has 8 hair on his head. He went to Barber shop. Barber in anger asked: “Shall I cut or count?” The Old man smiled and said: "Color it!"

LIFE is to enjoy with whatever you have with you, keep smiling. If you feel STRESSED, give yourself A Break.

Enjoy Some:
     Icecream
     Choclates
     Candy
     Cake

Why? Because: STRESSED backwards spelling is DESSERTS; Learn to master and enjoy it.

Alphabetic advice for you:

A B C: Avoid Boring Company.
D E F: Don't Entertain Fools.
G H I: Go for High Ideas.
J K L M: Just Keep a friend like Me!
N O P: Never Overlook the Poor and suffering.
Q R S: Quit Reacting to Silly tales.
T U V: Tune Yourself for your Victory.
W X Y Z: We (e)Xpect You to Zoom ahead in life.

 Also remember:

ONE Good FRIEND is equal to ONE  Good Medicine.

 Likewise ONE Good Group is equal to ONE Full medical store!

 Six Best Doctors in the World:

          1. Sunlight
          2. Rest
          3. Exercise
          4. Diet
          5. Self Confidence
          6. Friends

Maintain them in all stages of Life and enjoy healthy life.

If   you   see   the   moon; You   see    the    beauty    of    God.
If    you   see    the   Sun; You   see    the    power   of    God   &   
If   you   see   the   Mirror; You   see     the    best    Creation of   GOD.



So    Believe   in    God and yourself. We all are tourists & God is our travel agent who has already fixed all our Routes, Reservations & Destinations.  So Trust him & Enjoy the "Trip" called LIFE!

Monday, August 14, 2017

WHAT IS THE WORTH OF GOLD IF NOT USED?
A Miser had buried his gold in a secret place in his garden. Every day he went to the spot, dug up the treasure and counted it piece by piece to make sure it was all there. He made so many trips that a Thief, who had been observing him, guessed what it was the Miser had hidden, and one night quietly dug up the treasure and made off with it.
When the Miser discovered his loss, he was overcome with grief and despair. He groaned and cried and tore his hair. A passerby heard his cries and asked what had happened.
“My gold! O my gold!” cried the Miser, wildly, “someone has robbed me!”
“Your gold! In that hole! Why did you put it there? Why did you not keep it in the house where you could easily get it when you had to buy things?”
“Buy!” screamed the Miser angrily. “Why, I never touched the gold. I couldn’t think of spending any of it.”
The stranger picked up a large stone and threw it into the hole. “If that is the case,” he said, “cover up that stone. It is worth just as much to you as the treasure you lost!” 

Saving, spending wisely and appropriately is a good sign if you do it for good purpose. Otherwise, a possession is worth no more than the use we make it for.